Motivation Puppet Or Individual



Motivation comes as​ a​ result of​ having a​ clearly defined goal to​ achieve something that you are passionate about. I meet people week in​ and​ week out here in​ Oxford that are thousands of​ miles away from home studying at​ the​ university. Oxford is​ world famous for​ turning out some really successful people, such as​ presidents, prime ministers and​ CEO’s of​ large international companies. in​ fact there are probably students studying there now that will be responsible for​ massive changes and​ impacts to​ the​ world in​ their lifetimes. One problem that I hear of​ from the​ academics that I help in​ my clinic is​ one of​ a​ lack of​ motivation and​ plenty of​ procrastination.

A massive number of​ students that do come and​ see me have arrived at​ Oxford with no clear definition of​ what they want from even being there. When asked what they will do with their degree they say that they are not sure and​ when I ask then why they are studying they tell me that it​ is​ what their parents want. This makes me a​ little concerned as​ how can we expect motivation and​ passion to​ be there when we are trying to​ achieve something that is​ someone else’s dreams and​ goals for​ us? I really detest the​ parental war cry of​ ‘go to​ university and​ get good grades so that you can get a​ secure job’. This is​ all well and​ good if​ children and​ young adults are allowed to​ explore their own dreams and​ aspirations – instead of​ having to​ do what their parents say.

I have seen students that are just seemingly ‘lost in​ life’ because their parents have chosen to​ decide what would be best for​ their child’s life. This type of​ restriction is​ cruel and​ is​ uncalled for. if​ parents wanted a​ puppet they should have gone to​ the​ toy store instead of​ having children. if​ you are a​ student in​ this position you will understand just how this can impact your passion and​ motivation.

If you are in​ this situation you have two options, the​ first is​ to​ become more assertive and​ start to​ explore and​ research the​ things that you want to​ achieve in​ your life and​ then start to​ achieve them. the​ second is​ to​ except defeat and​ do what your parents want and​ get that degree and​ then enter the​ rat race. the​ choice is​ yours – puppet or​ individual – you decide.

If you want to​ gain more motivation, passion and​ enthusiasm then I suggest that you use hypnosis to​ achieve your goals and​ attain the​ career and​ lifestyle that you want to​ have.





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